Find out now, with these tips, those who care about you or your career!

Do you want to know if people around you care about your career?Do you wish to know why you don’t have friends?Do you want to know your real enemy?There is just one thing that connects these questions together, and it is called; DISCERNING!Your ability to discern what part of the criticism around you, should be used as a progression tool would be revealed in this post.

Do you know Who CARES?”𝘮𝘢𝘺𝘣𝘦 𝘪 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘮𝘢𝘺𝘣𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵!”

“𝘮𝘢𝘺𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘮𝘢𝘺𝘣𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵!””𝘸𝘩𝘺 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘶𝘭𝘵 𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘱𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘴𝘦 𝘮𝘦? 𝘮𝘢𝘺𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘮𝘢𝘺𝘣𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵!””𝘸𝘩𝘺 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘥𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘰𝘯 𝘮𝘺 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘴𝘸𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘰𝘯, 𝘳𝘶𝘣𝘣𝘪𝘴𝘩? 𝘮𝘢𝘺𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘮𝘢𝘺𝘣𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵!””𝘤𝘢𝘯’𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘴𝘦𝘦 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘥 𝘪𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘮𝘦, 𝘤𝘢𝘯’𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘵𝘶𝘯𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘪𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘤𝘰𝘳𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘦 𝘮𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦? 𝘮𝘢𝘺𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘮𝘢𝘺𝘣𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵!”

These and many more thoughts overflow my head as I brawl out my eyes.

I see no love in their actions, I see no support in their actions. I see no encouragement in their actions. I was bitter, beaten and broken.

I wanted peace and all the good feelings to come back to me. I wanted to be known as the good girl of the family, as a good and worthy friend to my friends, and nice sister to my siblings.

But I got a message from a write up like this on that fateful day I was planning my escape from the pain.

I saw that message when other couldn’t see it. I read and read the post again. I shed tears from my heart that I have missed the sᴇɴsᴇ in the NONꜱᴇɴꜱᴇ.

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You can either see your situation in two ways:👇

• For the criticism, beating, chiding, chastising; ᴀꜱ ᴍᴀʏʙᴇ ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴄᴀʀᴇ!
• For the early morning wake up calls, for the fingers pointed at your mistakes; ᴀꜱ ᴍᴀʏʙᴇ ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴄᴀʀᴇ!
• The pestering and “Hope you know what you’re doing?” “This job you have decided on, will it bring money?” “Don’t press too much, don’t do as if you know everything!”.

All these questions could be that they are helping me to see the world in a whole new dimension, maybe they didn’t want me to waste my time now and regret later?; ᴀꜱ ᴍᴀʏʙᴇ ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴄᴀʀᴇ!

• You can decide to see criticism as a corrector, you can decide to see *DEPRESSION* AS A *PROGRESSION* TOOL.
• You can see it as a force or eye-opener. Maybe you can see the care in your parents chiding and chastisement. Maybe you can see care in your friends harsh pointers.

These, and many more I discovered in the post, back in that year. It has helped me in some harsh situations, where my coach has declined my posts, when she had made a point not to attend to any direct messages from me.If I had not seen care, correction in her chiding and acts, I would have thought she hated me and wouldn’t even put more effort in my training, not to talk of coming out as a refined writer.Let’s move to that question that scares me, which is;

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WHAT IF THEY DON’T CARE?

They may not care because this life is not a bed of roses. So, not everybody would love you. Do remember the story of that Farmer, his donkey and his son.

They may not care because they don’t like what they are seeing.

People sometimes want to associate with success, they want to be known with celebrities. They love luxury and successful things but now they can’t see that in your struggles because you are cooking. You are a SUCCESS in the making. _Comfort. O

POUNDED YAM may decide not to take the beatings of the pestle in the mortar and stay as YAM.I made a quote in my last post and it goes thus__

“This vision of the mission you have seen is only known to you and trust me, nobody would understand you because the vision of the mission is only know by you.” (qυoтe вy coмғorт. o).The people around you don’t see what is in your vision, don’t know about your mission but you do and the only way to prove you are *INTENTIONAL* is to actualse your 🅅🄸🅂🄸🄾🄽 and bring it out!

It’s just like when you dream and no one sees it because you are the only one who had dreamt it but it is not through narration they get to know it but through realisation. Don’t you remember the story of JOSEPH the dreamer boy.

Even when you’re knee deep in harsh critiques, remember you have got only yourself to waddle through it

Bottom line of this, is to tell you that people who gives criticism sometimes MAY CARE and sometimes MAY NOT CARE. You have to discern!

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