THE WEIRD RULE NOBODY TOLD YOU ABOUT

THE MIRROR RULE

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It says every single person in your life is a mirror that reflects a side of you not known to you..

Does that sound scary?

When you’re told that if you look at me, you might see yourself but in another facet…it sound creepy and eerily enough that it might fiddle with your brain but it’s not a myth!

Thank God you’re not fainting on me yet. But before you dismiss this, you need to know how it is possible for you to see a reflection in me when you see me.

The answer is – EMOTIONS

Your emotions are the mirror of behavioral reflections that tells how well or bad you take anything done to you. In other words, the emotions you displayed is reflected on the reactions of the other person and in a way tells what kind of person you are at the given time.

THE QUALITIES/BEHAVIOR you see in others and fight against or love and own is just a replica of who you are!

I keep saying this but you still don’t get it..do you?🤔

The basic emotions- Anger, Joy, Love and Hate are the mirrors of what you do to others and what others do to you.

A colleague did to you something awful, you’re angry and you yelled at them but they don’t charge back at you… Well dear that’s just a reflection of who you are to them…

When you stand I’m front of a mirror and yell at it and hit it, what does it do or what do you see? That’s it! Now you get it! YOU ONLY SEE YOURSELF AND THAT IMAGE YELLING AT THE MIRROR STARING RIGHT BACK AT YOU IS YOU AND NO OTHER PERSON.

You cant be a better person if you don’t pay attention to the mirror rule, it means you have let the emotions decide who you are, neglecting the fact that after you leave the mirror stand, your behaviors remain with you. If you want to be a better person, check reactions to your words on people and you will see who you are.

And when you do, what do you see and what do you do?

If  what you see is not right, change  and check back to see WHAT THE MIRROR SAYS ABOUT YOU. Remember, mirrors don’t tell lie!

Published by Comfort Adeyeye

Comfort Adeyeye is a Christian, Author, currently living in Nigeria. Comfort Adeyeye is the founder and voice behind *Healthy Heart Matters*. With a professional background in strategic communications and brand narrative, she applies a unique lens to the topic of heart wellness—one that moves beyond physical health to examine the stories, connections, and daily conversations that form its foundation. Professionally skilled in shaping credible narratives and building trust for organizations, Comfort now focuses that expertise on one of life's most personal subjects: the profound link between our emotional world and our mental health. This blog is born from the belief that the quality of our communication—with others and with ourselves—is a critical, yet often overlooked, pillar of a healthy lifestyle. Through thoughtful exploration and relatable writing, Comfort translates complex ideas about psychology, relationships, and well-being into accessible, impactful content. The mission is to foster a space where practical insight meets shared experience, helping readers build not just a healthier mental health, but a happier, more connected life. In essence, Comfort operates as a trusted guide, using the power of clear, compassionate storytelling to explore how the art of communication becomes the science of mental health care.

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